True love- Does it exist?

True love. We hear about it on talk show. We read about in one book to another. But does true love exist and can it be found?

Where to find true love

The human spirit is powerful and enduring to say the lease. One of the concerns I hear about frequently from men and women is, “where can I find true love” One survey showed that despite all the challenges men and women are faced with in terms of finding true love and being able to hold onto it come in two fold.

1.      95% of men and women say that they believe in true love.

2.      The second concern is that the survey participants said that they would like to know how to find their love.

The reality is that you can find true love anywhere. The question, where to find love, denotes if there are specific places you could go to find love. Actually, there are and there are a number of techniques you can use to find your love. But before we get to these points, we need to understand what love is and what it means to different people before we discuss where to find true love.

What is love?

First, what is “love”? The dictionary define love as “to have great affection for,” or “to feel sexual passion for,” and so forth. It is true that more often than not, love is associated with intimacy, sex, and things of that nature. In some cultures, love is perceived as having sex. In other words, people from these cultures will say things like, ‘making love’ meaning having sex. In other cultures, love is perceived as the care you have for someone close to you, like a friend or family members. You often hear parents from these cultures say that they love their children. Does that mean they have sexual intercourse with their children? Of course not. People who have pets may say they love their pet. So as you can see, love means different things to different people. This leads us to the next step, where to find your true love.

Find true love

True love can be found through traditional dating. The statistics show that most people find love the traditional way, not from the internet. The success rate in finding true love through online dating sites and services is only 5%. There are creative and very effective ways to find lasting love. Here are a few examples that actually work.

v  Find true love by asking  friends if they know someone that you can meet. If you have friends and throughout your friendship you have demonstrated to be a thoughtful, kind and respectful person, your friends will not hesitate to recommend their friend to you because they know you are a good person and looking for true love and are more than happy to help. That is one way to find true love

v  Find true love by asking your barber or hair dresser. Yes, you heard me. I recall that when I was doing my research for my book, I was pleasantly surprised when my hair dresser told me about some of the parties going on that weekend where there would be many single men and women. Remember that barbers and hair dressers are also counselors. People tell them personal concerns, like and dislikes. Where do women go first when they want to go out? They go to the hair dresser to get their hair done. When do men go to look good before they go out looking for someone to date? They go to their barber for a haircut. While there, they exchange information. As I discovered during my research, both men and women usually tell their hair dresser where they are going. So don’t hesitate to try “out of the box” ideas. That is another way to find true love.

v  Find true love using your dog, In my view, the hottest and newest way to find love is using your dog. Here is an example. What you are about to read is a true story. It actually happened.  For example let say you are a guy looking for a woman or a date. While you are out for a walk, you see the most beautiful woman walking her dog coming towards you. You want to talk to her but you hesitate out of fear of rejection. You look around and there is just the two of you facing each other. What are you going to do? Just walk by without saying anything? How about a first greeting the woman and ask, “What breed of dog is that?” “Can I pet it?” Start a conversation. You may even ask her, “Do you know of a good restaurant around here?” Once she tells you, invite her to come with you for a snack and ask that she bring her dog with her. Take a frisbee with you on the date. After the meal or snack, take her and the dog to the park play with the dog. If you love and pay with her dog, she will love you.

Yes, true love does exist and simple approaches like I have described can help you find true love.

For the complete details, please go to How to Find True love